Mr. Right gone Wrong.

Guys. There are a lot of them. Different kind actually. Now let me tell you some details about guys and their attitudes. To begin with, I’m actually not an expert on anything; I’m just a simple girl with one simple wish. .to find Mr. Right. But, there is a big “BUT”, Mr. Right decided not to exist anymore. It seems like they just vanished from the ground. Anyway, here it is a little description on the Mr. Right gone wrong. Let’s start with the most easy to find, Mr. Torpe. Well, Mr. Torpe actually exists in every guy, but there are some that who are exceedingly shy or prideful. Mr. Torpe with good looks sometimes called Mr. Nerd. Mr. Nerd had good looks and the brain to work it. But, he is shy and does lack confidence. It makes him more attractive to girls actually, not knowing that he looks good and he’s shy. The only thing wrong about him is that he lacks confidence and in some cases had a high standard on people, which makes him hard to approach and awkward to be with, and irritating at some point. The other Mr. Torpe is actually cute in many ways, yah, he’s charming, sweet and easy to be with. He’s actually the type that you want to be more friends with than any type of guys. He’s not as smart as Mr. Nerd is but he knows the importance of a good education so he always studies. You can be yourself with him all the time. He cracks jokes that make your bad day good. He got a smile that you can't help but adore. He’s someone you’ll fall for just because of his kindness. The only thing wrong about him is that when he starts to like a girl, especially a friend of him, he started to be distance and feel awkward. For him, friendship and love doesn’t exist twice. They are two different things never to be mixed with. He thought that friendship actually means much more than to risk it with some petty love. It is sad, often guys like him experience heart break more than once or twice and was afraid to fall again. Next is Mr. Jerk, no wait. I would like to reserve Mr. Jerk last. So next is Mr. Playboy. Mr. Playboy is a good guy, that has high self confidence, smart, funny, thoughtful, sweet and usually comes with a girlfriend. Yap, he already had a girlfriend but acts as if he don’t have even if everyone knows he had. (Kinda confusing, my last statement right there.) He’ll tell lies, cheats, and make you swoon over his sweetness and make you feel that well, it’s okay to have him as a friend (with benefits) even if he had a girlfriend. There are also two types of Mr. Playboy, the first one is the one who flirts with everyone, almost everyone though, he don’t flirt with ladies whom he thinks won’t fall for him. He changes girlfriends every month or every week or even every day. He’s the reason why monthsaries are invented, because relationships he has won’t even last for a year. Mr. Playboy 2 however does have a girlfriend for long years. He cheated with her for the 400 times but he still holds on to her. The poor girl however won’t let go of him. This I actually don’t quite comprehend, how can you hold on to a guy who cheats with you every single time he had a chance? Well, it’s either love or desperation. I just hope it’s not desperation. I never really know how this kind of guy still lives. Or what would happen to him. All I know is that he should never exist if only guys think not only what he feels but about what other feels. If Mr. Playboy 2 loves himself too much, he can never love anyone more than himself. Next is Mr. Paasa. Well, they say that a lot of girls assume and expect too much that’s why they hope for love that was not there. It is, at some cases, true. And girls should be much smarter than they are. But the mere fact that guys shows something that wasn’t even there; they are already making “Paasa”. So, how do you know Mr. Paasa? Simple, they were normally a friend of yours who’ll makes you feel as if they like you. Makes you fall on your knees with simple kindness and gesture. They’ll make you feel they like you even if they don’t. And until now I never understand why they do that. But, once they see that you’re already falling for them, they won’t catch you anymore. They’ll let you fall on the ground and you’ll hit on it hard. They would start to ignore you, make awkward things to make you feel uncomfortable which would make you starts to ignore him, and the moment you confront him for what you really feel, he’ll simply tell you, “Hey, I don’t really remember saying that I like or I love you. You’re just hoping for something that wasn’t even there, masyado ka lang umaasa.” And there you are, hurt, disappointed, broken hearted. We also have Mr. Confusing. I actually don’t want to include him on this list but I see that he too does exist. Mr. Confusing is what the song “Urong-Sulong” is about. He’s the one that makes you think, “What on earth do we have?” He’ll make you stay in the middle of something. He’s your friend, usually your best friend but there are certain limits that you two had already cross as if you are together already. He sometimes makes you feel he likes you and then the next day makes you feel that you don’t even exist. (As you see, I love using the word exist) Anyway, there he is, walking towards you, and you won’t know what’s gonna be next to your relationship. He just makes everything complicated and well, confusing. This guy is particularly easy to handle, just show him Ms. Confrontational and settle things straight with him and you. Then there’s Mr. MU. Mr. MU won’t exist if you won’t let him. He’s a dangerous type of guy. So, you tell me, you guys met and at some point your attracted to him and you feel he does the same way. You became friends, real good friends. You talk about anything and would go anywhere. You feel comfortable being with each other. And then he tells you straight that he likes you, you blushed, and happy because for the first time, here is a guy who likes you and you also likes. Then, you wait for the right time to tell him what you feel, just to make sure. And the moment you told him you also love him, everything just felt like the movies. You feel like, here it is, finally, the person I’ve been looking for. The only thing hindering you both is time. You had the right love at the wrong time. You both decide not to go into any commitment and just enjoy each other’s company, at least your both in love right? And one day, when the time is right, you’ll finally be together. But then, time is a confusing being. One way or another, one of you would be tired of waiting and started to fall out of love. And there he is, Mr. MU turns to be Mr. Confusing, and then turns to either Mr. Playboy or Mr. Paasa. It is a sad situation actually, since you teach him to be Mr. MU, it is also your fault. Lastly, we had Mr. Jerk. Mr. Jerk is the one I hated most. Hmm, let’s just say, all of the type of guys I’ve mentioned earlier are all combined to him. Yeah, really, they can all exist in just one person. And believe me girls, you can’t help but meet Mr. Jerk. It is a good thing if you only meet him because your friend talk about him, what’s bad is when you’re the one who experienced him. The thing I don’t like the most about Mr. Jerk is that he made you love him so much that you start to lose yourself over the process. Even if you knew him, you would still take the chance to be with him, hoping for a chance to change him. The sad truth is Mr. Jerk can never be changed unless he wanted to change himself. Well, there you are girls. Hope this simple article would actually help you in any way possible. And again, I’m not an expert on these things; I just learn from others experiences, my own experiences and observations. And of course, you don’t have to deal with these guys anyway, if you only chooses to wait, wait, wait. Because I still know there is someone really made for you. Someone God had prepared for you, you just gotta be patient. And reserve your heart for the right one for you, you don’t need to deal with these kind of guys that would just bruise you and hurt you. And yes, love isn’t the only thing that makes the world go ‘round. Even if you’re the only one in your barkada that doesn’t have a boyfriend or a love life it wouldn’t end your world. Maybe God just wanted you to focus more on other things that makes you more productive. You’re not an animal and your duty does not only depend on how you would go and multiply. You are more than what your love life tells you. So, stay happy, even if your single. Or rather, celebrate! Because singleness is a blessing, you maybe don’t realize but there are a lot of responsibility comes with a relationship and a lot of stress too. So, you’re actually blessed. God bless you beautiful sweet girl! -C.A.P.S ~P.S. Sorry for all the typo's and wrong grammars. Peace out! ~ ;)